Warning signs of a breakup are often right under out noses yet we fail to see them and are totally shattered when a breakup finally occurs. Would you know what to look for? The following is a list of the top 9 signs that something is wrong and following is just what you can do about it!
The 9 red hot signs that your relationship may be in trouble are:
1. Have you found that you cannot justify why your partner has started working strange or irregular hours that are completely different to their normal routine?
2. Do they keep forgetting to do the things they promised to do for you or plans they have made with you, where in the beginning they would have moved the earth for you?
3. Have they forgotten a date that is special to you both like a birthday,a celebration or an anniversary? This is particularly more serious if they have always been great at remembering up until now.
4. Is it difficult to have a deep or meaningful conversation with your partner lately. Do they seem continually distracted, sulky or even uncommunicative?
5. (Also one of the most telling warning signs of a break up ) Have the levels of affection and openness in how they show affection changed? Are you getting less hugs and kisses? Have they stopped holding your hand in public?
6. Has your partner become disinterested in your plans or whats happening in your life?
7. Are they lying to you, especially about things that are not really important and would normally have been easily talked through?
8. Do you find that your partner no longer shares their email and text messages with you, or that their phone calls now seem secretive?
9. Outside of the normal misunderstandings that are healthy in a relationship, do you find yourself disagreeing with your partner more and more?
Most of these changes by themselves may not always indicate a problem, however if three or more of these indicators are present you really need to consider what to do about saving your relationship. How do you respond when your partner is already acting like this?
The thing is there is a great deal you can do to make things better, if that is what you want to do. How to mend a relationship that has the warning signs of trouble ahead is part of the subject matter of a highly effective relationships program called the Magic of Making Up.
