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Top Reasons Why Men Commit Infidelity

Women regardless of age have been asking the same thing: why men cheat? This age-old question still has puzzled the female population, or at least those who had experienced it first-hand.

Top reasons why men cheat are as follows:

They are is something missing Men and women are similar, their emotions need to be attended even though you think they don’t.

They seek constant reminder that their partner love and appreciate them. Without reassurance from their partner, men feel unworthy and begin to drift from attachment.What happens is, they seek attention from someone who can give them what they need.

It runs in the body

Watching animal Planet will give you a clear picture why men is more likely to cheat. Male’s main job is to protect his territory and spread his seed in order to ensure the continuity of his bloodline. Meaning, it is in his nature to knock on someone else’s hut to ensure that his genes continue. However, this doesn’t mean that cheating is inevitable; despite his nature, men need to fight it-especially after a pitcher or two.

As a sign of saying goodbye Most guys who fell out of love don’t have the guts to say to their partner the truth- they simply do not know how to end the relationship. Perhaps because they don’t want to make the first move or don’t want to be labelled as jerk who ended something that is good. Instead, they tip-toe around to get their woman leave him for good.

As a reassurance that he is still attractive Once married a man (or a married woman) is expected not to flirt around other for the rest of his life, or at least until he is divorced.However, it is in his nature to look for something different. Think of your relationship as a playlist of songs that plays over and over again; it will be just a matter of time when you get tired of listening to it. Any male has to update their playlist when they are starting to get tired of it but if they can’t get it from their wife, the tendency is for them to look somewhere else.

To get attention Men do not cheat simply because they need to have sex with another woman.

Sure, they have sex with other woman/women but that’s not the sole reason why men cheat cheat. Just like women, men need contant attention, but if their wife could not give it to them, they seek another who can give them what they need. Seeing you naked will make him stay for a while, but it is important to understand that to make him feel worthy, you don’t just appreciate him when he is shovelling the snow off your driveway.

Ivan Tart is a blogger and marriage counselor. He has been very active in solving marraige problems and providing women answers to different questions regarding relationship including, why men cheat.