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Are You Getting Married Before You Are Ready?

Surely loving each other is enough reason to want to get married you might say. Yes, fine, of course you are in love with each other but are really prepared to live together for the rest of your lives?

If you have not questioned each other regarding the 5 subjects listed below and have carefully listened and carefully considered each others comments you are not, in my book anyway, set to make that total promise?

So why should you talk through the five situations below before you make your final commitments? And what is so critical about them?

The answer to those questions is simple- one or more of the 5 subjects listed below are, as a rule, the origin of most divorces in the US today.

The experts reckon that if all couples planning to wed talked about the five issues below before marriage the divorce level in the US could be cut by something like 83% and on the rest of the earth by over 60%.

So, just what are these five situations?

Family- do you each of you want to have kids? If one of you doesn’t then your marriage is almost certainly doomed from the beginning! If you each of you wish family how do you propose to educate them?

Belief- meaning religious belief. What do you believe in if anything and how strongly do you believe. If you don’t believe in a supreme being how will you cope with moral issues?

Money- how do you feel concerning the subject? Are you a spender or a saver as regards money?

Relatives-what are your feelings about each others family?

Sex- how important is it to you both?

The issues detailed above are so vital that if you can’t come to an understanding on all of them it might be better for you each of you that you did not wed each other. Better to move away and find another partner who shares your outlook.

Now that might sound unreasonable, but remember, most of the divorces in the US have one or more of these subjects as their root cause: Children, Religious belief, Money and Sex.

To all you couples reading this, I beg you, discuss the five issues listed above with you intended before you make those final vows.

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