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The Zen Story of The Gift of Insults

Yesterday a friend sent me this story.  I thought it was a great example of how we receive that which we are offered by others.   How often do we find outselves faced with an uncomfortable or challenging situation, only to react instead of respond.   Have I mastered the skill demonstrated in this story?  Sometimes, but not in every instance.  I find when I am connected to the earth and feel my presence in the moment I am better able to respond, not react.  

The Gift of Insults A Zen Tale

             There once lived a great warrior. Though quite old, he still was able to defeat any challenger. His reputation extended far and wide throughout the land and many students gathered to study under him.

One day an infamous young warrior arrived at the village. He was determined to be the first man to defeat the great master. Along with his strength, he had an uncanny ability to spot and exploit any weakness in an opponent. He would wait for his opponent to make the first move, thus revealing a weakness, and then would strike with merciless force and lightning speed. No one had ever lasted with him in a match beyond the first move.

 

Much against the advice of his concerned students, the old master gladly accepted the young warrior’s challenge. As the two squared off for battle, the young warrior began to hurl insults at the old master. He threw dirt and spit in his face. For hours he verbally assaulted him with every curse and insult known to mankind. But the old warrior merely stood there motionless and calm. Finally, the young warrior exhausted himself. Knowing he was defeated, he left feeling shamed.

Somewhat disappointed that he did not fight the insolent youth, the students gathered around the old master and questioned him. “How could you endure such an indignity? How did you drive him away?”

“If someone comes to give you a gift and you do not receive it,” the master replied, “to whom does the gift belong?”

 

Being in that state of non-reactiveness, free from the struggle and fight of the ego is something that takes thought and practice.  I believe each of us have times when we have been in our spiritual comfort-zone and been able to achieve this state.  Allow me to repeat: when I feel connected and present I am more complete.  I don’t need the words of others to define me.   How do we develop this ability within ourselves?  By turning inward, bringing our focus on self, and letting go of the struggle.  Life is a learning experience, a work of art “in progress”.  Enjoy it all, expand your thinking, and play with your new toys.

Author Estee Taschereau is an intuitive counselor and energy awareness teacher in Washington State.  She is also a Reiki Master, and teaches EFT as a tool for personal growth.  Private consultations are available by phone for life empowerment coaching. 

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